Aunt Ruth is a very young, spunky, and fun 88 year old lady from Louisville, Kentucky who's been volunteering here at KICS since January. She helps tutor children, and works with two boys who have autism. She flew here by herself, and she leaves in April to go back to her beautiful horse farm in Kentucky. We will certainly miss her. Aunt Ruth first started taking mission trips to Africa 20 years ago after her husband passed away. In those 20 years, she has lived in Eritrea, Tanzania, Kenya, Zaire, Ethiopia, and now Rwanda. She's taught in an orphanage, lived in a mud hut, taken public transportation in Africa (this says A LOT!), and been kicked out of Zaire by the late dictator, Mobutu. All of that took place in the last 20 years! Aunt Ruth is an example of a life that is lived! And she's still living it. She's so full of life. We went to town the other day and I was tired trying to keep up with her, weaving in and out of traffic and the rows in the market! Talking with Aunt Ruth is something I adore and treasure. She has so many amazing stories to tell, and yet, is unbelieveably humble. She loves to give me relationship advice, among other things, and I gladly accept it! The way she talks about her husband is so endearing. He grew up in an orphanage, and lived there until he was 18. She thought she would never marry and find someone that could keep up with her. But when she met her husband, she fell in love with his humble heart and how incredibly smart he was! They married and were flat broke in the beginning, but God continued to bless them both, and he ended up being the VP of General Electric. They had 7 children who are today spread out all over the country, and they were blessed with 13 grandchildren too. When we were eating the other night, and she was talking about her late husband, she smiled and said that they always kept a framed copy of Rudyard Kipling's poem, "If" in their house. And then she recited the entire poem for me over dinner! I wanted to share it with you....great lessons there! Aunt Ruth has really been a blessing to me these past few months. I only can hope to live a life this rich and full! Her life is an adventure that only God could have written. She makes me think of the verse in Luke, "Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her!" (Aunt Ruth is camera-shy, but I'll post a picture of her before she leaves for sure, so you can see the fullness of joy in her face!)
"If" by Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
' Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!